Sunday, August 31, 2008

Who's Caring About Young Mothers?

Are you that person who shoots out negative comments here and there about the lifestyle of our young mothers? Are you one to ask, "Where is the Village?", but have no active role in it yourself?





Young Mother Magazine is a magazine unlike any other parenting magazine because we assist adolescent parents with living day to day life as a parent and youth. The purpose of YM is to cater to the financial, economic, life, and educational needs of adolescent parents ages 13-25 through parenting classes, research based articles, and promoting positive mentoring amongst their peers. YM Magazine believes in strengthening our community by approaching weaknesses proactively with research based information, mentoring and volunteer involvement.

Learn more about Young Mother Magazine, Editor-In-Chief, Tequita Odom, and how Smell Goods '98™ is supporting YM here!

Thursday, August 28, 2008

The Bluest Eye

The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison. My fourth time around reading this book. It never gets old.

Front flap- It is the story of eleven-year-old Pecola Breedlove, a black girl in an America whose love for its blond, blue-eyed children can devastate all others, who prays for her eyes to turn blue: so that she will be beautiful, so that people will look at her, so that her world will be different. This is the story of the nightmare at the heart of her yearning, and the tragedy of its fulfillment.
Local library or Amazon

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While reading The Bluest Eye, two incidents came to my mind:

One day I was in my vehicle listening to a Talk Radio Show. The topic was interracial relationships. A Hispanic woman (happily married to a "black" man for several years) called in and said, 'A "black" woman married to a white man speaks volumes. Just imagine a "black" woman working in Corporate America and her white husband comes in one day, that will do wonders for her career. I can see why Oprah, Gayle, and powerful woman like them married white men.'

Hmmmmm

One day I was in my vehicle sitting at a stop sign. Another vehicle zoomed by and the driver blew the horned and looked back at me quickly. As I was driving, I came to a stop light pulling up right next to that vehicle. The driver, a young brotha with beautiful dark chocolate, flawless skin says with such passion, 'You are so beautiful to be DARK!'

Did I miss the compliment?

Warrior Princess Z. asked, "Mommy what did he say?" I said, "He said that mommy was beautiful." I chose not to tell her the DARK part, because cycles of madness need to be broken, and that starts with the individual.

The Civil War

During the summer we began our study on the Civil War through literature.


Local library or Amazon


Local library or Amazon



Local library or Amazon



Local library or Amazon

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

America I Am Tour

America I Am Tour - The African American Imprint

Partial Tour-Charlotte, NC 8/2008





Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Wangari's Trees of Peace


A True Story from Africa
Author: Jeanette Winter

From front flap of book cover. As a young girl in Kenya, Wangari is surrounded by trees. But when she gets older, she sees the trees being cut down. Wangari is afraid that soon all the forests will be destroyed. So she decides to plant nine seedlings. And as they grow, so do her plans... This true story of Wangari Maathai, environmentalist and winner of the Nobel Peace Prize, is a shining example of how one woman's passion, vision, and determinationn can inspire great change.

"We are called to assist the Earth to heal her wounds and in the process heal our own-indeed, to embrace the whole creation in all its diversity,beauty, and wonder." Wangari Maathai

Amazon


Read by Warrior Princess T.

Monday, August 25, 2008

Are We Living in a Post-Racial Society?

Joan Gosier

Forty years ago the winds of change blew in promises and hope of a
new beginning in each living American's history. Descendants of
freed black slaves were inspired to achieve heights and to launch a
marathon race to close the artificially imposed gaps in civil
privileges. Hurdles were seen as temporary barriers of sorts. Given
an equal opportunity many within this pioneering Baby Boomer group
seemed to aspire to reach heights that were historically limited to
only a very few privileged individuals in a pre civil rights era
black society. In 2008, many of the trophies and prize awards from
this marathon race can be seen on alumni rosters of prestigious
institutions of higher learning, on various corporate advisory
boards, and of course the growing list of retired who's who in
America recognitions. So no wonder that in 2008 we could dare
inquire are we living in a post-racial society? In order to respond
to this question and to project out into the future, I would like to
analyze numerical data, segment the data into clusters, and review
potential trends that seem to be driving the trajectory within these
clusters.

I believe that we can only reap what we have sown. Every seed
planted is not promised to yield marketable fruit. But yet one can
carefully examine each sprouted seed and quickly eyeball how the crop
is beginning to fare overall. With no sun, fertile soil or rain,
there will be no healthy sprout. With no healthy sprout, there will
be no plant. With no plant, there will be no fruit to reap in the
expected future. One can quickly eyeball the living conditions that
are reality for the majority of our infants and toddlers to see that
our sprouts are in jeopardy. Without an increase in love, nurturing,
education, food and shelter to change the trend of social despair and
inequity, our ability to reap the promised rewards of a post-racial
society will be greatly determined by how well we tend to our current
garden.

According to the Miami Herald in a few decades,
"all Americans will be minorities...All the changes will show up
first and fastest among children, less than half of whom will be non-
Hispanic whites by 2023...If we don't invest in educating and training
African-American kids, immigrants and Latino kids, we won't have a
middle class,'' said Mark Sawyer, the director of the Center for the
Study of Race, Ethnicity and Politics at the University of California
at Los Angeles. ``We'll have a very, very poor disposable class
that's largely black or brown.'' The face of America will look
different, too. ''I think the American complexion will be a
multiplicity of complexions rather than one complexion,'' said
Gilberto Cardenas, director of the Institute for Latino Studies at
the University of Notre Dame in Indiana. The study predicts that the
number of Americans who say they're biracial or multiracial will more
than triple from 5 million to 16 million people by 2050. Some
sociologists already have scrapped ''minority'' for terms such
as ''dominant'' and ''nondominant group'' to discuss race and
ethnicity, Sawyer said. Noting a recent poll in which half of whites
opposed federal aid to minorities, Cardenas' colleague John Koval
joked that they should think twice. ''Pretty soon they're going to be
the minority,'' he said.

In addition, scientists who study brain development continue to
confirm that the earliest relationships and experiences that a baby
has help set the stage for life-long emotional and other
competencies. Yet investments in high-quality infant and toddler
care, including supports to informal care providers, lag, and state
policies to support parents are notably inconsistent.

According to recent poverty data, it is reported that only 36% of
African American babies are living in a family NOT LOW-INCOME. This
compares with 76% of Asian babies and 70% of white babies who are NOT
LOW-INCOME. So that means there are 1.2 million black babies, 1.25
million Asian babies and 9.0 million white babies who are age 0-5
according to recent poverty data who are NOT LIVING LOW-INCOME. So
food for thought, if poverty and lack of knowledge and/or exposure
causes one to grow up in a certain way...over time that becomes a
cycle of trauma/hopelessness. The seeds that are sprouting in a post-
racial society is racially segmented worse than what we are
witnessing in 2008.

As well-equipped MBAs we have the power and the opportunity to
individually and collectively problem-solve and increase the
probabilities of an abundant harvest. We must become our brothers
and sisters keeper and avoid sticking our heads in the sand thinking
that it is NOT our babies, NOT our neighborhoods or are NOT our
problems. Simply based on the numbers and the news, the media and the
marketplace, I believe we are once again in a critical human
investment period in our U.S. history.

Unless and until the children 0-6 years old are enjoying the
advantages of a post-racial society, a society that proactively
removes all barriers of cultural group advancement and simultaneously
welcomes individual contributions of gifts and talents, I find it
challenging to imagine healthy and marketable fruit ripe for reaping
by year 2028. Our post-racial society is really only as strong as
our weakest child.


Joan Johnson Gosier is a 1996 MBA from the University of Michigan.
She is co-founder and partner of HBCU kidz, Inc. a Fort Lauderdale
based infant, toddler, preschool gift boutique, www.HBCUkidz.com.
She has been quoted in publications such as More Black Success, Urban
Profile, Birmingham Times and Courier. The Gosiers are also the
owners of BlackParentConnect.com a unique online gift marketplace for
children of color. Joan and her family work as a team to build the
HBCUkidz.com brand one family at a time.

DNC in Denver

I contributed funds to blogger Adrianne George to assist her in her travels from Sweden to Denver. Adrianne will be blogging live from the Democratic National Convention in Denver August 25-28.

Adrianne can be followed on Utterz. She will be posting her daily, perhaps even hourly, reports on several blogs incorporating photos, video, and text.

Other sites Adrianne will post to:
African American Political Pundit Blog
Democrats Abroad Sweden Website
AfroSpear Think Tank Blog
AG Communications

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

"Ain't Got Dat"

Earlier this year my husband built a Green Room in our garage.

Here is our first production!

Ain't Got Dat-Blue NIle Studios-smellgoodspa.com

Monday, August 11, 2008

Lexus Events

Company name: Lexus Events
Owner: Margaret Salmond

Website Links:

http://www.lexusevents.biz
http://www.letsgetawaytravel.net
http://lexuseventsnews.blogspot.com
http://www.myspace.com/lexusevents

About us:
Lexus Events is a full service event planning company based in the Bay Area. We can assist you will everything from budgeting to finding a venue, locating a caterer to planning a weekend getaway. All travel is handled by Lets Get Away Travel, the travel subsidiary of Lexus Events. Coming soon, LE Gifts; featuring the best in Bath and Body, sensual products, and baby shower gifts.

Contact Info:
Margaret Salmond
info@lexusevents.biz
Office: 510-595-4669